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Photo credit: Nick Harris, Facebook

A White woman who has a mixed-race child went on a racist rant after the Black father of her child got cornrows put in her hair. The incident went viral after the father, Nick Harris, shared his story on Facebook.

The post featured screenshots of a text conversation between Harris and the woman who was identified as Sam. Harris paid to get their daughter’s hair cornrowed and Sam lashed out.

“I am so pissed off,” Sam wrote in regard to the child’s hair.

Harris responded by texting, “Is that seriously your response? It looks great! She doesn’t look ‘too black.’ ”

Sam then claimed that her mixed-race daughter was not Black and that she was taking the cornrows out.

Harris responded to Sam by reminding her that the child is indeed Black. “But she is Black. Unless I’m mistaken and I’m not her father,” he wrote. Sam told Harris that he was the father of the child, but the child “didn’t need hair like that.”

Sam told Harris that he was the father of the child, but the child “didn’t need hair like that.” “It’s ugly,” Sam wrote. “My kid is more White in my eye not fully Black so she don’t [sic] need that ugly hairstyles [sic].”

Harris then attempted to educate Sam on race and culture. “Your child is mixed, sweetie,” Harris wrote. “She’s half-White and half-Black. Her skin tone doesn’t affect her race. But ugly hairstyle? You send her over to me looking like a turkey. Mixed girls don’t wear their hair with bangs. … Were you expecting to have sex with a Black man and have a White baby?”

The interaction between Sam and Harris reveals how racism can even exist within families. Sam was with a Black man but clearly looks down on Black people and Black culture. It’s similar to some Whites who claim to have “Black friends,” but are racist with their actions.

Unless Sam can find a way to understand and appreciate Black culture, she will never completely love her child.

Harris ended his post by writing the hashtags, “Racismdisgustsme,” and “F—racism.”

A.R. Shaw

A.R. Shaw is an author and journalist who documents music, politics, and entertainment. He has covered The Obama White House, the summer Olympics in London, and currently serves as Lifestyle Editor for Rolling Out magazine. Follow his journey on Twitter @arshaw and Instagram @arshaw23.

  • Dontrell

    He should have never slept with her in the first place

    • Kev Mac

      Some of our brothers and sisters believe that them liking black peen or vag means they can’t be racist. They’re horribly mistaken.

      • David Thomas

        In general, nobody is more racist than black people. That has been MY experience.

    • Suzuki35

      maybe he had bad negress terrors in his past… maybe her parents were married and his weren’t… so he thought he was moving “closer to Godliness” as that would be…

    • KUDU

      Correction – she should not have slept with him if she didn’t want black children. Seriously, did she think her children would look like Elsa from Frozen? Even if by some immense fluke they came out with white skin and blonde hair, they would still have had the thick African lips and flat nose, with most likely a coiled blonde Afro.

  • Mason Youngblood

    Her kid may not look fully Black in her eye but she can’t deny that that d*ck didn’t look fully Black..but it wasn’t a problem..why is the little girl’s hair. I know white women like to undercover love a Black man and when other White folk find out about it the white women like to holler ‘rape’, deny it, etc. Same here..she don’t want other white folks looking at her daughter as nothing but white because otherwise it says,”I’m a n*gg** lover”. The nerve a these white cave b*tches.

    • Suzuki35

      because your blackness doesn’t come with the deal.. haven’t you noticed that yet dumdum.. you don’t get to come along with one white woman LOL… we didn’t know black was like a yeast infection and that you are “all one” his black (negress porn potty mouth term) is not her nor her child.. they are both white…. the black seems to be WITH YOU AND NO ONE WANTS IT get it now?

      • Mason Youngblood

        Uh..who are you..what are you talking about?

    • KUDU

      I agree. White women obviously can’t handle the freedom they have been given. Society will be much better off if interracial relationships are made illegal again.

  • David Thomas

    She is just as white as she is black.

    • KUDU

      No, she is black. A biracial child is never white. Even if her skin was light she would still be black. Only when a person is 1/16 black or less will I be willing to consider them white, provided they look white and have no features that betray African heritage, like a flat nose, thick lips or coiled hair.

  • lifelibertyhappiness

    Wow. This kid will need some outside reinforcement to help her feel good about her own natural hair. The brainwashing has already begun. In her eyes and in her house, she can see her kid any way that she wants. However, the rest of the world sees otherwise. Just ask President Obama.

  • Kaia

    The mother was rightfully upset because corn rows can seriously damage a person’s scalp. If damage occurs it is permanent. There’s nothing wrong with natural beautiful mixed hair or black hair or white hair.

    “Traction alopecia is a form of gradual hair loss that is caused by tension, stress, and pulling on the scalp and hair fibers. Though traction alopecia can occur in any race, it is most common among women of color who wear their hair pulled back in braids, or in other tight styles, away from the face.”

    Tight braids and beads are also not appropriate for a child, because they are uncomfortable to sleep in. if you don’t believe it then just read articles that adults have written about the pain that they are in, when someone braided their hair very tightly. the difference is that the adult is allowed to take it out if they want to take it out.

    Some parents like to dress a little girl up like a doll and think more about decorating her hair then about her comfort. the mother was right in this case.

    • Suzuki35

      it wasn’t even a race issue but black women are up in force lol. they feel they are in that child.. its a sickness…… they feel related like a yeast infection to the child… like they “cling” to someone else’s child.. “all one” its always been their disease….

  • Suzuki35

    ZERO RACISM HERE.. she said she is not black.. that is correct.. also we all know blac moms who don’t want that hair style for their kids..blacks cant be this babyish and sensitive.. no one will ever want one around then.. ever… if this was reversed lol.. well we all know answer.. cuz they are two faced because they cant just be black l like we all wished! they get identity by worrying what non blacks think lol.. ……. white dad goes and straightens childs hair.. black mom gets mad..says she is black.. and not white and wants a black hair style lol… grow up babies… you made life hell… now this!? this is the worst tactic yet blacks have ever pulled! (the annoy us one) I hope I never ever see a black again in jeans or a plaid shirt or anything at all that isn’t straight outta Africa! (ill only add the pacifier to their mouth instead of the huge metal plate in the lip) try to be more culturally appropriate please black people! you haven’t even began yet! ..the child is half white… the child doesn’t need a black hairstyle.. and this comes after a black woman tried to beat up a white guy for wearing dreds in his hair ,that video is viral too (she placed her hands on him..violence! she risks a criminal record over a strangers HAIRSTYLE??? THEN WHY ARENT YOU NEGRESSES BEATING UP ALL YOUR BLACK MEN FOR WEARING LIPSTICK???? YOU WONT!! lol you are all SICK… you all get old and die end of story!! and this is why…you prefer he have his 1 in 2.. yes 50% black male homo hiv rate… than to tell him he isn’t being sexually appropriate..oh wait.. to you he is…..black lives matter coddles their gays….abominations.. 70% out of wedlock… grow up gay? and you worry about a white woman not liking a negro hairstyle? the child is not negro dumdum.. YOU ARE!

  • Suzuki35

    I know white moms that freak out when white dads get their white childs hair cut.. they go ballistic every day over it.. they just don’t like the cut or style… black people get over yourselves… God hates this… your personailities are an abomination to Him every day…you can talk about hair and remain unmarried and even have kids after that.. (not one even has to be accepted) “suffer ye not a bastard AMONG YOU” God commands us to not suffer the over 70% of black folk!!! Only the married and born in wedlock will be blessed…. we had enough time to get this right… the rest of you are goners..this wont make sense to the gay lesbian coddling “black lives matter” (with 50% hiv rate) look we know we have a retarded abomination in our midst we are commanded to suffer not.

  • KUDU

    The race traitor should not have slept with a black man and should not have had children with him if she didn’t want unsightly black children. I seriously cannot understand the minds of these “enlightened”, “colour-blind” white women… Not being racist and treating all people with respect is one thing, but actually having black children instead of white children is taking things to a crackpot level. She has slapped her white father and all her white ancestors through the face by not passing on her white features to the next generation. There will be 4 billion black people in Africa alone by the year 2100 – black people really don’t need white women to help them make more black children.