Brokenhearted But Ready To Try Again
11.13.08

Dear Fly Guy,

I broke up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago. How long do you think you should wait before jumping into another relationship? I’m starting to get lonely, but I’m scared I might get hurt again. What should I do? Please help?

Searching for Answers

Dear Searching for Answers,

Before you jump into a new relationship, you have to make sure that you are completely detached emotionally from your former love. By failing to get him out of your system first, you run the risk of bringing unnecessary emotional baggage into your new situation. This all reminds me of Diddy shortly after Mase retired from music. He could have taken my advice, and waited until he was completely over Mase … but no. He ran out and quickly signed Loon (and we all know how that turned out.)

By using Diddy as your guide, I sincerely hope that you begin to understand the value of patience before tossing your hat back into the relationship ring. I’m sure they’ll be days of loneliness where temptation begins to get the best of you. But be strong, and address the emotions of the past before boldly stepping into your bright future. Keep me posted on your progress.

The Fly Guy

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