Captain Save ‘Em: Why Men Cheat With Strippers
He Says: Visiting the strip club is not really cheating.
In this regard, spending time at the strip club (and away from you) is not cheating in a man’s mind because they’re great at compartmentalization. That is, what happens in the strip club stays there, and has nothing at all to do with his relationship at home.
Truth be told, the strippers compartmentalize in this way as well. Most dancers have boyfriends and husbands at home and the dance is a performance for money received, that’s it.
Typically, the stripper doesn’t want your man anyway, she’s at work. She’s working her body and working his mind, according to blogger Stripperati:
“I’m dancing to a secret, embodying something emotional while projecting only faked lust. I only let them see what I decide to share. And I can be one thing, while they’re seeing another.”
He Says: Visiting the strip club is good for your relationship.
Men tell women that the occasional visit to the strip club is harmless, as dancers are not allowed to touch customers. In fact, the strip show is something that is for your benefit, as the dancers will tease your guy with fantasy so that he can bring his best moves home to you.