Pimpology 101: Triangulation is a seduction technique that appears in the naughty little book, The 48 Laws of Seduction. Here’s how it works: If you want to win the affection of someone, you must show that person that someone else wants you even more.
Your target will consider the other person in your life to be their competition, and the two will battle to win your love. This is how the author Robert Greene explains it:
“Few are drawn to the person whom others avoid and neglect; people gather around those who have already attracted interest. To draw your victims closer and make them hungry to possess you, you must create an aura of desirability — of being wanted and courted by many. It will become a point of vanity for them to be the preferred object of your attention, to win you away from a crowd of admirers. Build a reputation that precedes you: If many have succumbed to your charms there must be a reason.”
Hence, the Love and Hip Hop scenario of Stevie J, Mimi Faust and Joseline Hernandez: Stevie J has a long and storied reputation for sleeping with his artists, sadly, and this reputation keeps Mimi Faust fighting for her place on the roster.
Faust has 15 years in the game, and a beautiful child with Stevie J; in her eyes she will be the wife one day.
Stevie J makes cheating acceptable because Mimi Faust is nothing short of a medical miracle. Damn, how does a woman walk around without a spine? More than acceptable, Stevie J makes cheating expected.
He’s out in the open with his game, he even Tweets about his transgressions.