Ladies, are you competing against another woman for a man’s attention? Competition is definitely a part of the human nature and most importantly dating. And, we as women are competitive by nature. Think about this — have you ever been out at a club or restaurant and you are eyeing a man that is out with his lady? Mature women will recognize that he may be taken and just step aside, while others will see this as a challenge (and you know who you are).
The sad thing is that some women will go to any length to make this man “hers,” regardless of the fact that he is dating someone else. She is determined to prove that she is the one for him. This may include throwing the other woman (under the bus), if necessary. And, this is when the disrespect comes into play — the competitor will seek out the women’s insecurities, illnesses, flaws or weaknesses, only to make herself look better. However, a man may be flattered that another woman has an interest in him, but a real man will never want you, and will see you as disrespectful and cunning.
Secondly, some women could care less about a relationship or love, but are power struck. Nothing in this world would make them happier, than to steal someone else’s man and the sad part is — they don’t even want him and if he was single, they would have no interest. Unfortunately, there is a lot of game in the dating scene in 2016, but you have to be wise enough to see if you are being played?
And, of course, the forbidden fruit … the man that has everything going for him — good looks, a successful career, a beautiful woman on his side, a wedding ring on his finger — clearly displaying all the signs that he is off limits. Sadly enough, this type of man (forbidden fruit), makes some women want him even more, as you’ve probably heard before — they want what they cannot have.
Ladies, if you are exhibiting any of these actions, please take some time and look within to see what is causing such inappropriate, disrespectful, and unladylike behavior.
At the end of the day, I am the least bit interested in a man that I have to compete with another woman or women for. I don’t care if every woman wants him. A real man will never take part in this immature act, as he will make sure that I don’t have to compete with anyone.