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Sheree Whitfield delivers gut punch to ex-husband Bob

Sheree Whitfield & Bob Whitfield (photo credit BRAVO)


Sheree Whitfield has finally resolved her relationship woes with ex-husband Bob, after he resurfaced to rekindle their romance.

During last week’s tearjerker episode, fans witnessed Whitfield burst into tears after the former NFLer appeared to admit to abusing her during their marriage. “Maybe I didn’t choke you hard enough,” he said.

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Now, in a teaser for this week’s upcoming episode, it appears Whitfield has cut all ties with her ex, denying him access to her heart … once more.

“You left — and you didn’t give a f— Bob,” said Whitfield in a sneak peek shared via Instagram. As usual, Bob had little to say, leading Sheree to cut all ties with her ex. “I’ve been content with it for 10 years,” she continued. “You haven’t done anything in 10 years since we separated.”

Following backlash over his subtle admission, Bob turned to StraightFromTheA, where he issued an “apology” for making light of a very hurtful situation.

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“My Dearest Woman,

I am wrong. I made trivial the abuse of HER in front of the world. I am no monster. I allowed truth, comedy and conjecture to convey an image of myself that I would never condone. I know how emotionally charged anger can inflict damage to someone you hold dear. My mockery is shameful and no longer funny.

One instance of psychological abuse may not condemn someone to death, yet it would be no instances that makes [sic] a man wholesome; by being thoughtful in words and actions; being responsible in procedure and measures; being a protector, provider and provisioner for his family; and to show proper restraint with committing actions that lack virtue.

I laugh because it feels better than crying. However, I must cry for forgiveness.

My humility now is true to the pride that I take of holding HER to the highest esteem as mother or as wife, as confidant or as [a] friend .

This ode is true …

Humble and Highest Regards,


Will this man’s ghostwriter please stand up?

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  1. The Truth on March 18, 2017 at 1:44 pm

    Sheree, let Bob go, some men never get it, until it’s to late….’A LEOPARD DON’T CHANGE THEIR SPOTS’!! He will hurt you again, he don’t appreciate ‘YOU’….you can do better! Good Luck!

    • Geraldine Johnson on March 18, 2017 at 11:31 pm

      Bob and Sheree never were planning to get together. It’s a Storyline. And believe me Bob wrote this letter. He is very intelligent. If u don’t believe me. Watch Iyanla Fix My Life, u will see how intelligent Bob is. I still don’t believe he abused her. In 9 seasons why did she Never talk about it. Even with the divorce. Mmmmmmm

      • The Truth on March 19, 2017 at 10:15 am

        Being intelligent doesn’t stop an abuser, it’s a sickness that some men have with women! In the beginning of ‘RHOA’ Sheree and Bob were divorcing and sheree spoke of how Bob had abused her. Abusers know how to hide their problem or put fear in the person whose being abused. We both are on the outside looking in, only Sheree and Bob really know the ‘TRUTH’! What’s in the dark will come to light.

      • Chuck on March 19, 2017 at 11:37 am

        You’re definitely on point. And, also, look how he won a verdict in court against a practicing attorney, Phaedra.

        • cindy on March 26, 2017 at 6:16 am

          She is a crap attorney ! Full of hot air and a devil spinning lies.! So it couldnt have been hard to win over a jury for him she is useless

      • Mae on March 19, 2017 at 8:51 pm

        You sound like the typical woman that has never been abused or has been abused but is blind to the fact that men hide what they do behind closed doors. And yes Bob is very intelligent, intelligent enough to keep Sheree quiet while he abused her. That’s what skillful abusers do. They know how to abused you and then make you feel like they love you. Therefore you keep quiet about the abuse. When you have been abused sometimes you do not discuss it with others because of the shame that you have for letting it happen to youself. There are women that put up with abuse for 20-30 years and never say a word about it and stay in the marriage.You are the type that an abusive man would seek out because you would be an easy target.

        • cindy on March 26, 2017 at 6:18 am

          Amen well said. I did 10 long years before i came to my senses.! These type of men are pathological liars and borderline sociopaths!

      • Rochean L Spencer on March 20, 2017 at 6:01 am

        It’s truly sad when other Black women are on here talking bad about a woman that was abused….Bob even admitted to abusing her mentally ..damn STFU you miserable angry ass mofos ..She basically put it all out there tonight ..It was real get over it ..She said she loved him..She gave him he all ..He left her and the kids and y’all talking good bout bob….STFU

        • cindy on March 26, 2017 at 6:19 am

          I cant stand Sheree but i do know you are 100% correct. I would not wish a bastard like that on anyone ! Not even her.

      • Marie Thomas on March 20, 2017 at 8:41 pm

        First of all this big insensitive, doofy ass, cross eyed dead beat dad is FAR from intelligent as are you for not realizing it.

  2. Geraldine Johnson on March 18, 2017 at 11:35 pm

    I like Bob and I understand that some people hide their emotions behind laughter. It’s not that their laughing at the situation. Sheree tears are from not having the money she needs for that house. She can’t even pay for tags on her son car. Bob came along for the Storyline and that’s it. If someone abused u like that, why film with him, date him, travel with him. Please Mmmmm

    • Missgee62 on March 18, 2017 at 11:49 pm

      You sound so dumb! Please leave the planet

      • Trebanogstrasse on March 19, 2017 at 9:43 am

        Perfectly, simply, said! Wow! SMH

    • Chuck on March 19, 2017 at 11:39 am

      I think you may be a bit too intelligent for these ignorant people, with silly comments. In the meantime, I agree with your points, as they are very valid.

  3. Blis2200 on March 19, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    I’ve watched RHOA since the first episode and as a domestic violence survivor I felt from the beginning she was abused by him.
    I don’t care how intelligent he is, that he joked about the choking (and he said he trivialized it? No, what he said was just another intimidating threat of physical abuse). Minimizing what you did is a true indicator that you are not better or sorry.
    Sheree is just like me, we don’t give up our dignity anymore!

  4. Blis2200 on March 19, 2017 at 3:07 pm

    Why should Sheree give up a lucrative career because of him, she’s safe on set.
    I could also tell she was abused because of her behaviors during the time she wouldn’t thank Nene for the start, abuse stings your dignity so bad, and being gracious at first is just almost impossible.

  5. Jerzy mikes. on March 19, 2017 at 3:12 pm

    She needs to give up the shateu and get a smaller crib. All that housewont make u feel better. It’s not for her kids. It’s for status in atlanta. Everything else I sympathize with her

  6. Taunya73 on March 19, 2017 at 6:15 pm

    The person that wrote that for him did a decent job, but….too late! good riddance!

  7. scrpn1106 on March 20, 2017 at 6:29 pm

    i dont know why she had put into consideration to get back with him . He refused to take care of his kids just that reason alone would have been a deal breaker for me ._.

  8. cindy on March 26, 2017 at 6:14 am

    I can’t stand sheree because she is like phaketra another hypocrite.
    Jealous insecure and returning to this idiot well she too has to be even more stupid than first thought.