Women have become more independent and accustomed to going after what they want in their lives and careers. But unfortunately they’ve carried the practice over into their dating lives and are actively pursuing men and giving up way too much, too soon. Men are becoming passive in their pursuit of women because sex seems to come to them on a silver platter.
Men are wired to want, need and enjoy the challenge of winning a women and earning all of the privileges that come with that like attention, affection and sex. However, as much as they like the chase, they’d be fools to not take advantage of free vagina. Now that men have gotten used to women giving away her “benefits” with little effort on his part, it’s spoiling it for the rest of the single ladies and making men passive and lazy!
Ladies, raise your standards! When things are easily accessible in unlimited quantities, they tend to be taken for granted and lose value and the same applies to women and sex. This is not to say that all men are passive or want what’s easy, but it certainly has played a part in the downhill spiral of courtship.
Dating isn’t what it used to be because women aren’t what they used to be. Being a strong, independent woman who goes after what she wants is not a bad thing in the boardroom, but in the bedroom it is a tragedy because when you take it too far, you end up making a man feel no need to woo you. You take away the challenge that men love and deprive yourself of the attention that you deserve. –swg
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Shay Williams-Garrett aka Shay Your Date Diva is the a speaker and author of “DIVA Don’t Get Played!” and “Mommy DIVA Don’t Get Played!” both dating guides for catching the man of your dreams in 30 days.
