There is no reason to jump. Some will jump from wherever they are to take that fatal spill. People are under tremendous financial and emotional strain. Many are psychologically fragile. No longer can they use conspicuous consumption to make themselves feel happy again. Physical and emotional suicide await those who cannot withstand the unrelenting pressure.
The acquisition of things and artifacts and little accoutrements that used to make you feel good inside really were a reflection of the ugliness you felt inside. Today, it is not about how much you need to sustain yourself; it is about how little you need to survive. There is now a new thing that you should understand — the value of being spiritually and emotionally healthy.
What you value is indicative of who you are. If your self-worth is tied up in the initials or symbols on your clothing and accessories, then that attitude will drive your behavior. You will believe it is reasonable to soak yourself in silk even if your bank account is in the red. As a matter of fact, you will justify being financially reckless because outward appearances are more important to you than being solvent.
If you want to be acquisitive, try gaining some knowledge. Knowledge won’t shrink, fade, crack or break down on a busy highway. Read a book. Visit a museum and let the art speak to your soul. Take pride in the nest egg you’re building. Be proud of knocking down the mountain of debt that’s been threatening to derail your financial independence.
How valuable are the things that we’re buying if we have to write an insufficient check or swipe a credit card to pay? Before spending a dime, we should ask ourselves a simple question: Is this something I need to make myself feel good or is it a true necessity? If we just want to feel good, the price we’re paying is too high.
These are tough times, there’s no question about it. But we have to shift our values and thinking if we’re serious about coming out on the other side even stronger. Start feeding yourself a spoonful of tranquility each day, whether it’s meditating at sunrise or while walking through the park.
When we ’re facing difficulties, it’s easy to feel sorry for ourselves. But if you reach out to help someone else in need, you magically forget your own problems. This is the perfect time for volunteerism. Help out at your local school. Visit a nursing home and read to the residents. Donate clothing to someone in need. We must begin to acquire the things that sustain and enhance life. Allow yourself to be consumed with the business of living. Get off the plank, get off the ledge and live.
Peace.
Munson Steed
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