1. Send your man a message and make it clear that you want him, so that he know what’s in your head. He can’t read your mind, but when he watches a pole dancer she makes it obvious to him that she wants to go to bed.
2. Amusing tricks are what he really wants to know. Every dancer has a few moves that she’s got tucked away in her arsenal. You can take a class to learn the moves that will get him clapping when you offer him a more intimate dance in his lap. You don’t have to be raunchy, but you can woo him and dazzle him the way he wants it to be. After all, when he looks in the seductive eyes of a pole dancer and watches her twirl, he knows without a doubt that she can do it just right.
3. Costumes are important so the dancer dresses for the part. Some of you put on a T-shirt, and make it clear that you have forgotten the art of dressing in something that arouses him, or undressing in way that wows him. The garment and outfits that you have to wear behind closed doors, are the ones you tend to hide and keep out of sight and out of mind. But a man knows a pole dance will wear that provocative clothing morning, noon and night. When she’s making breakfast, she will wear that outfit that is skin tight. She’ll parade around in the negligee she wore to bed, or she’ll put on the catsuit that drives him out of his head. She’ll serve him dinner that whets his appetite for more than what’s on his plate. That’s why he pays the dancer, she understands what it takes.
4. She won’t engage him in conversation that does not take him on an intellectual or emotional ride. She knows what’s on a man’s mind and why. She tell him he’s handsome and she compliments him so he’ll want to be with her each day. She talks about the needs she has, and assures him that he fits the bill. In short, she gives him a thrill.
5. She knows his erogenous zones and confidently ventures there. She’s studied how to glide around him and is more than willing to take the dare, and touch him in special places and in special ways. He wants the women he encounters and those that choose to be with him to know what the dancer knows. Even while she’s on the pole, she shows him special attention when she comes by and strikes that special pose. She nibbles his ear and strokes his chest.
So now that you know these five ways to avoid losing your man to a pole dancer, take instruction and see if things don’t get better in the bedroom for you and he. Don’t be hesitant to ask him for what you want — all he can say is “no.” Love your man in every way possible and watch your pockets grow. –phil mi
