Is your goal still to be married by the age of 30, have a family by the age of 34 … is this realistic?
Are most of your classmates married or having babies faster than the demise of Chad Johnson’s career? So now you pressure yourself into staying in a relationship based solely on time limits you’ve set.
You fall into the pool of women who say, “I don’t love him, but he’s safe.”
You feel secure knowing you at least have a man. Your mind-set has unfortunately pieced together the wrong ideation of what matters most.
Happiness cannot be found in the arms of a man, no matter how much you want it to; happiness begins with self, no matter your relationship status.
–lydia k. nesmith
