Would a woman agree to be a side chick if the check is right?

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Women can be very particular when it comes to choosing a man to settle down with. While men are positioned as the “hunters,” it’s the woman who ultimately decides whose proposal she will accept. Most single women have a laundry list of things they are looking for when it comes to the opposite sex, but does this list get shorter if the guy in question has a large bank account? Many men say yes!

I admit that as a single woman I have a list of things I consider turn-offs when meeting men. I can also realistically admit that when a man is extremely handsome or more importantly is very financially affluent, some of those attributes develop a bit of wiggle room. For example, I am particular about my personal space. I don’t like being touched or grabbed by someone I don’t know. However, I recall being approached by a gentleman a few years ago that grabbed my arm when I walked by. When I turned back to look at him and realized he was handsome all my issues about personal space disappeared. To add, it’s easy to give a bad date one more time if the next date he plans is a trip out of town or to a great event. Who says no to an impromptu trip to an island for the weekend?


Many men feel women’s opposition to cheating is based solely on their financial means. Scott, a 42-year-old building engineer calls hypocrisy when he hears women won’t settle for anything less than a faithful man. “Women will look past the laborer and chase the one guy with money that every chick is trying to get. They would rather share a man who has money than date a broke man who would be faithful to them,” he said.

There are enough ball players, rappers and actors that have stepped out on their girls with little to no consequence to assume this theory could be true. There are so many I don’t really need to point examples out. Years ago, we learned Kobe Bryant gave his wife a $4M ring after her husband was publicly outed for having a one night stand with a hotel employee. The pricey ring made headlines, but countless women stay with famous and or wealthy men through infidelity scandals, some even producing children outside the relationship. Does money heal their broken hearts faster or is it all just coincidence? What do you think?


 
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Dr. Christal D. Jordan Jennings is a journalist and professional entertainment publicist with several years of experience in celebrity marketing and branding. Jordan worked in the corporate PR sector before relocating to Atlanta, GA and founding Enchanted Branding and Public Relations in 2008. The company specializes in public relations strategy, media training/consultation, and crisis communication in service of notable celebrity talent such as TLC’s Chilli, Roy Jones Jr.,Kenan Thompson, and more. Further, Jordan serves as a journalist. She serves as editor-in-chief for Lenox & Parker, Sr. Editor with with Rolling Out and Sr. Features writer with Collider, where she specializes in stories that emphasize the importance of empowering women. Jordan earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Organizational Communications and her Master of Arts in Mass Communications from the University of Oklahoma. Most recently, Jordan started a YouTube channel pulling from her own experiences with celebrity endorsement and strategic relationships. The channel, entitled From Christal with Love XO, boasts over 27k subscribers and works to celebrate love and relationships from a progressive lens. She is also the host of Fox 5 Atlanta’s bi-weekly segment on celebrity relationships. After twenty years of notable stellar contributions in journalism, public relations and literature, Christal received an honorary doctoral degree in Literary Studies from TIUA in June 2024.
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