Online dating has become an increasingly popular way to meet new people and find love. However, it is important to be aware of the potential risks involved in online dating, including the possibility of encountering an abuser.
Online dating abusers can be very skilled at manipulating and controlling their victims. They may start by being very charming and attentive, but they will gradually become more and more controlling and abusive.
Here are seven signs of online dating abusers:
1. They rush the relationship
Abusers often want to move the relationship forward very quickly. They may pressure you to meet in person, have sex, or even move in together before you are ready.
It is important to take your time when getting to know someone new. Don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to do.
2. They are extremely jealous and possessive
Abusers are often very jealous and possessive. They may constantly check your phone and social media accounts, and they may get angry if you talk to other people.
This behavior is a red flag that the person is trying to control you.
3. They isolate you from your friends and family
Abusers may try to isolate you from your friends and family by making negative comments about them or by making it difficult for you to see them.
They may also try to control who you can contact and what you do.
4. They are verbally or physically abusive
Abusers may verbally or physically abuse their victims. They may call you names, put you down, or threaten you. They may also hit, push, or shove you.
If someone is verbally or physically abusive towards you, it is important to end the relationship immediately.
5. They have a history of abusive relationships
If someone has a history of abusive relationships, it is a red flag that they are likely to be abusive again.
Be sure to ask your date about their relationship history and be wary of anyone who has a history of abuse.
6. They have a lot of rules
Abusers may have a lot of rules for you to follow. They may tell you what to wear, who you can talk to, and where you can go.
These rules are a way for the abuser to control you.
7. They make you feel bad about yourself
Abusers may constantly criticize you and put you down. They may make you feel like you’re not good enough or that you don’t deserve to be happy.
This behavior is designed to erode your self-esteem and make you dependent on the abuser.
If you are dating someone who exhibits any of these signs, it is important to end the relationship immediately. Abusers are not capable of changing, and they will only continue to hurt you.
Here are some ways for staying safe when dating online:
- Be careful about what information you share online. Don’t give out your full name, address, or phone number to someone you don’t know well.
- Meet in a public place for your first date. Bring a friend or family member with you if possible.
- Trust your gut instinct. If something feels off about someone, it probably is.
- Don’t be afraid to end a date early if you feel uncomfortable.
- Tell a friend or family member about your date and where you are going.
If you are in an abusive relationship, there are people who can help. You are not alone. Here are some resources:
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- The National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE
You can also get help online at thehotline.org.
Online dating can be a great way to meet new people. However, it is important to be aware of the potential risks involved, including the possibility of encountering abuse. If you see any of the signs listed above, be cautious and take steps to protect yourself.
This story was created using AI technology.
