Raven-Symoné calls parenthood a ‘narcissistic’ choice

Actress and TV personality shares controversial views on having children
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Raven-Symoné thinks becoming a parent is a “narcissistic” thing to do. The controversial statement has sparked widespread debate across social media platforms, with parenting experts weighing in on the discussion.

The 39-year-old actress – who has been married to Miranda Maday since 2020 – does not have any children of her own, and during a chat with The Chi creator Lena Waithe, they wondered why anyone would opt to bring kids into the world. Her decision to remain childless aligns with a growing trend among celebrities who are openly discussing their choice not to have children.


“Whenever someone says to me they want to have a baby, or they want to be a parent, I think my first question is ‘Why?'” Lena said, speaking on the Tea Time with Raven and Miranda podcast. This perspective reflects a growing movement of individuals questioning traditional life expectations and societal norms.

“It’s a narcissistic act,” Raven said. The statement immediately went viral, generating heated discussions about reproductive choices and personal freedom in modern society.


“True,” Lena simply replied. The exchange has become one of the most talked-about moments from the podcast, with clips circulating widely across various social media platforms.

Meanwhile, the former That’s So Raven was discussing the notions of labels and communities with Lena, and insisted that leaving “toxic mentalities” behind to embrace the wider world is the only way to “learn” as a person. Her philosophy centers on breaking free from limiting beliefs and expanding one’s worldview through diverse experiences.

“When you leave that toxic mentality, you’re integrating yourself into the world, and that’s better for me,” she said. The actress emphasized the importance of stepping outside comfort zones to gain new perspectives and understanding.

“I love the fact that we are on a planet with so many types of thought processes and so many different types of cultures. We can learn from every single culture, from every single religion, and if you’re just stuck in one group all the time, you are never gonna grow,” she continued. Her message promotes cultural appreciation and the value of diversity in personal development.

“I have gotten in trouble a lot with things that I have said, but that is ultimately what my brain wants to do. I want to travel to every single country and say ‘Oh, you cook chicken better than me, I’m gonna eat your chicken too. Yay me! Y’all know who cooks that fried chicken, it’s not just black people. This s*** is delicious,” she elaborated. The actress acknowledged her history of making controversial statements while defending her desire to explore different cultures.

“I do wanna go to Africa and see the beautiful with the red clay on their skin, I wanna go to India and see the beautiful women with yellow clay on their skin,” she added. Her fascination with traditional beauty practices demonstrates her appreciation for cultural diversity and artistic expression.

“There’s so many ways and people to learn from, and if you just stay in that circle and condemn your people for venturing out, then that is toxic,” she concluded. The actress criticized closed-minded attitudes that prevent people from experiencing different cultures and perspectives.

Raven-Symoné‘s comments about parenthood reflect her broader philosophy of questioning societal expectations and making unconventional choices. Throughout her career, she has been vocal about challenging norms and encouraging others to think critically about their decisions.

The actress, who rose to fame on The Cosby Show and later starred in her own Disney Channel series, has consistently used her platform to discuss controversial topics. Her willingness to share unpopular opinions has both earned her criticism and praise from different segments of her audience.

Her marriage to Miranda Maday was announced suddenly, surprising fans who had followed her journey of self-discovery. The couple’s relationship represents another example of Raven-Symoné’s commitment to living authentically, regardless of public opinion or traditional expectations.

The Tea Time with Raven and Miranda podcast has become a platform for the actress to explore complex topics and engage in meaningful conversations with guests from various backgrounds. The show regularly features discussions about identity, relationships, and social issues.

Mental health advocates have noted that open discussions about reproductive choices can help normalize different life paths and reduce societal pressure on individuals. The conversation around parenthood continues to evolve as more people share their personal perspectives and experiences.

Critics of Raven-Symoné‘s statements argue that her characterization of parenthood oversimplifies the complex motivations behind having children. Supporters, however, appreciate her honesty and willingness to challenge conventional thinking about family and life choices.

The ongoing debate highlights the importance of respecting individual decisions about parenthood while fostering open dialogue about the various factors that influence these deeply personal choices in contemporary society.

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Jess Sobrevinas is a Multimedia Arts professional with a love for entertainment, music, fashion, film, and technology. She weaves impactful stories that balance creativity and meaning, drawing inspiration from both words and visual expression.
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