he says-she says
Secrets He Should Keep We’ve all been guilty of making mistakes in the past, and some of those need to be
left right there – in the past. So here are three secrets that you need to keep to yourself
when trying to capture the heart of that special someone.
–dewayne rogers
1. How many sexual partners you’ve had. No one wants to know how many sexual
partners you’ve really had, so keep that number to yourself.
2. That your credit score needs some work. Unless she’s preparing to spend the rest
of her life with you, your credit score is none of her business. Avoid the temptation of
letting her know that you’ve racked up enough credit card debt to fund a small third
world nation.
3. The way you’ve cheated in the past. This is a big one. The last thing she needs to
know is that you were a habitual cheater. She’ll instantly think that you’re doing more
of the same with her, which doesn’t necessarily promote a trusting relationship.
Secrets She Should Keep
Sharing too much about yourself and your past will have your date pushing you out
the door before you get a chance to tell him your last name. Here are a few things that
are better left unsaid. –jamana jamison
1. Financial trouble or instability. If your financial struggles include negative checking
account balances, major credit card debt, evading student loans and/or filing bankruptcy,
keep it to yourself until the two of you are at the beach with sand in between
your toes on the second day of your honeymoon.
2. Your sexual escapes of the past. Love without a limit may have been your motto in
your old college days, but sharing how many sexual escapades you’ve had is information
that should be taken to the grave. The truth shall set you free and so will he.
3. Those not-so-ladylike habits. Telling him about how you bite your toenails or your
frequent battle with flatulence after you eat dairy may be a bit too much for him to handle.
Continue to maintain your feminine persona until the time is right.
