Second-guessing the motive when someone professes their love for you? Waiting for a feeling that blows your mind, heart and soul?
Feeling like you might be in love could be the first part of the lie you tell yourself about why you should get married.
Anyone with anything to lose in a marriage would be wise to follow a business model for their personal relationship. So what exactly do celebrities know that most people don’t?
-
-
A famous or good-looking person will attract individuals who will desire to be a part of their dream. Being approached is not new. Hype masters really offer trouble most of the time, so protect yourself and your relationship at all times. Protecting your love is not the responsibility of poachers. Establishing a new relationship with someone who desires to steal you away from your love shows the interloper doesn’t respect you.
-
Love and respect should be first and foremost. The goal of an entertainer is to stay relevant and in demand. Of course the more successful a performer is, the more likely they are to be separated for extended periods of time from their loved one. Each person must make sure that love is never withheld even in the absence of their partner. Evaluating the status of love is often like watching success build on the music charts; smart folks keep their eyes on each so love is top of mind.
-
Someone who has experience in the same field can best understand the demands on their partner. This way, whether one is traveling around the world or working late into the night it won’t become a bone of contention because both parties understand the business. Making money is a joint goal in such relationships, and the joint pursuit of that goal only strengthens the love and the bond.
-
Entertainers know that feelings can be fleeting, so the facts need to be clear. Affection is always evaluated in a context of how it will benefit long-term career and family. Children born to the union are not mistakes, but welcomed and planned for emotionally and financially. The union is always the number one focus and real love is shared every day.
-
No one is more perfect for you than a person who is making a move toward the top. It’s important to let the man be the big man and the woman be the queen. He wanted to celebrate her and she respected his hustle. Why would either of them pick a loser and hope they changed? Jay and Bey knew they could rely on and trust one another.
-
Love was housed in the fact that Jay wanted to be her man and Beyoncé wanted to be his woman. All the other facts are not emotions that will fade with life’s challenges, but instead reveal a commitment that can stand the test of time. Facts prevailed over feelings.
Love is best when you love someone who can enhance your brand, not make excuses. Marriage is serious business, so why would you use emotions to evaluate the deal?
–munson steed
