Facebook responds: Would you Take A Cheater Back?
Clearly, only the couple involved can define a cheating incident as benign (harmless) or malignant (fatal). Rolling Out asked our opinionated Facebook friends if they would (or have ever) taken a cheater back; here’s what they had to say.
She says…
Christine: “I have forgiven a person twice and they did it again. …My tolerance for BS is extremely low not to mention, I’m not trying to catch anyone’s wretched diseases.”
Monique: “No…I don’t dip back into anyone I have ever broken up with! If we broke up, it was for our best good!”
Rita: “It’s wonderful to forgive, but it’s foolish to continue to stay in a relationship like that. I deserve better!”
Miz Erika: “One time only! Second time it’s over!”
GinaBee: “No to once. Hell no to second or third times! Once someone gains my trust and then ruins it, the chances of them getting it back are virtually impossible.”
He says…
Wayne: “No. Once you mess up, that’s it. To go back to that person means I am selling myself short, and it’s giving them the excuse to do it again.”
Dwayne: “I have to say that I have respect for those who can weather those storms over and again.”
Anthony: “Things will never be the same …”
Mark: “Cheating is more than a storm; it’s a tsunami laced on top of an earthquake. I can’t do it.”
Marcus: “If it’s my wife … but three times and I’m gone! To forgive is to deem yourself worthy of forgiveness.”
