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Todd Tucker pens open letter to young men about marriage

Kandi Burruss & Todd Tucker - Cover

It goes without question that Todd Tucker endured more than his fair share of publicized drama trying to marry “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Kandi Burruss, and much of the drama was due to Burruss’ mother, Mama Joyce. But now that the couple has finally tied the knot and their wedding special “Kandi’s Wedding” has wrapped, Tucker has decided to pen an open letter about his nuptials and offer up some advice to other men about marriage.

Tucker decided to post the open letter along with a photo of his and Burruss’ first kiss after the season finale of Kandi’s wedding aired Sunday night. In the post, Tucker talks about the difficulties he faced in trying to wed Burruss and explained to young men that any struggle is worth it when trying to marry the woman you love.

Todd Tucker - Open Letter Photo

“I just want to thank everyone for supporting Kandi and I. It was a very tough time getting through this wedding. I did this in hopes to show our young men it’s okay to get married, though things will be tough and you will have to put in work. I’ve shared my life with the world. I hope you were entertained but at the end of the day I hope you learned something and was able to take something away from my experience. With that said I thank you all from my heart for the love and support!!!” he wrote.

Well, we’re glad that Tucker and Burruss endured their tough times with Joyce and decided to go forward with getting married because it seems like they truly are happy together. – nicholas robinson


  1. Stayce~Michelle on July 8, 2014 at 1:08 pm

    Gotta love a man who sticks through the pains!

    • Steelo on July 14, 2014 at 2:16 pm

      Pain just starting, baby!

  2. Guest on July 8, 2014 at 10:36 pm

    just look at who is giving advice ? to who , who gave him advice ? oh the one who turned him out i quest , how the hell is a down low n..gro from atl marrying a ugly kandy … gonnna tell some boys how to marry ,, he got a FREAKIN PRENUP LOL .. A PRENUP DONT MEAN YOU MARRY WITH LOVE AND TRUST , THAT MEANS YOU MARRY FOR MONEY AND OPPORTUNITY IF SOMEONE DUMPS YOU … a pre conditioned contract of lies and deception .. we all know todd is g….y so who the hell cares and who are these fans / ?? that follow kandy ? lord … she made him get a prenup so he could trust her. to not run with all her bank .. when its a wraop and trust me this one will not last . …

    • Velvet Jones on July 14, 2014 at 2:20 pm

      Love, WTF, you on?? The struggle is real out in this b—h!LOL

  3. sugarbutterbean on July 8, 2014 at 10:39 pm

    kandy better take some pages out of terry mcmillians book baby these down lows dont give sh.t bout you and your money when the get in heat for a man and tired of your big ole bittys , they dont marry for physical attributes or love ASK SHERRI SHEPARD … i said from day one that one was doomed . my friends said no way a walla look how ignorant sherry was . these women have no idea the epidemic of gay men .. .. black men are unhappy with heterosexual relationships , and if they been locked up for over 4 years you better run… honey

  4. sugarbutterbean on July 8, 2014 at 10:42 pm

    let me state this with fairness to kandy , a prenup is a admittance that love is payed for and peace is afforded , you can not convence no one but your self you married for life when you plan what the future may be … people who really are committed dont do no prenup .. that is a an insurance policy for breakups. .and if you notice only celebrities and rich folks bother to do this why?? cause money is involved ,.. nice she got a prenup cause sherri shepard wish she had now . girl wake up i see why moma joyce was so crazy and wanted to get rid of todd

  5. Whydid Youblockme on July 9, 2014 at 3:57 pm

    Yea Todd went thru quite a bit trying to marry Kandi – but I can’t think of anyone who would’ve put up with a krazy old mean sickening btich like Kandi’s mom. Somebody with less tact & respect might’ve really cursed her out to the gills & even assaulted her

    • sugarbutterbean on July 10, 2014 at 1:22 am

      not sure just how much money kandy got that could be exaggerated like hollywood doe with angelina jolie , beyonce etc .. but kandy aint no catch so she better have a protection of her little bank , when its gone todd gone be gone too .. the man loves men and has been a known down low in atl people know this about him , thats why moma joyce sweated him she knows whats happen iwth him . the public dont kandy aint been on that show that long . so all this is not public knowlege people in atlanta knows about it …

      • Whydid Youblockme on July 10, 2014 at 11:52 am

        LOL oh come on now are you serious??
        now he’s gay …. ??
        he sure dont LOOK gay he’s fine az hell lol

        • butterbeansuga on July 14, 2014 at 12:15 am

          he is cute but sweet as a tall glass of georgia sunshine tea with plenty of sweetner in it .. lol

      • butterbeansuga on July 14, 2014 at 12:14 am

        most people didnt know that kandy ex that was murdered was a know downlow nigro .. she pick them that way .. she is dike like too always talking bout my girls ..her and tiny might be lovers

  6. Shady Jack Jones on July 14, 2014 at 2:15 pm

    LOL, I see some reckless sh*t on here! N*ggas always spreading rumors. LOL. Hey, only a broke MF would knock a prenuptial–you ain’t got sh*t but that Play Station 2! LOL. But, on the letter, c’mon n*gga, be married 10+ yrs b4 giving advice. Look here Playa, with that crazy a** mother-in-law, ya might not make 10 months!! Oh, and ya b***h silly-as-a-MF too! LOL LOL. SMH, MF ATL???