Lizzo “loves” that she and her boyfriend were friends for years before embarking on a relationship. This foundation of friendship has proven to be a source of strength in their romantic connection, allowing for deeper communication and understanding.
The 37-year-old singer confirmed three years ago she was dating Myke Wright and she has told how she views him as her “best friend” after they had so much time to really get to know one another before things turned romantic. Their journey together showcases the value of establishing a genuine connection before pursuing romance.
Appearing on ‘Therapuss with Jake Shane’, Lizzo and the host were “prescribing” advice to listeners and were discussing two friends who were keen to take their bond further. The podcast episode highlighted the common experience of friends considering a deeper relationship.
“I had a friends-to-lovers trope,” Lizzo said. “We both worked on this one TV show, [‘Wonderland’], for MTV. I was the music girl, he was the comedy guy.”
“I was just like, ‘He’s my best friend.’ I didn’t have any guy friends like that — well, I did because you know I’m in the music industry. But I was like ‘Wow, I can really talk to him.'” This level of comfort and openness in communication has been recognized by relationship experts as a crucial component of successful partnerships.
“We had this crazy bond for years. I do love that we were friends first, so that means we can talk about anything.” Their ability to discuss any topic stems from the years of friendship they built prior to dating, creating a solid foundation of trust and mutual understanding.
Jake said: “He’s your best friend.”
The ‘Good As Hell‘ hitmaker agreed: “Literally”. This simple exchange highlights the continued importance of friendship within their romantic relationship, maintaining that essential connection despite the evolution of their bond.
Lizzo thinks her personal situation is a real “dream” for many people. Many relationship counselors note that friendships evolving into romantic relationships often have stronger foundations due to the established trust.
“That is low-key like a fantasy. Right? It’s like a ‘Book-Tok’ dream to be like, ‘Oh my God, like he was my best friend,'” she added. The reference to ‘Book-Tok’ acknowledges the popularity of this relationship trajectory in contemporary romance literature discussed on social media.
The ‘Truth Hurts’ hitmaker previously admitted she had to do a lot of work on herself before embarking on a relationship with Myke. This period of personal growth represents an important step many people take before being ready for healthy relationships.
Appearing on ‘The Howard Stern Show’ in December 2022, she said: “[We are] not playing any games with each other anymore. We’re very much locked in.” The elimination of “games” indicates a mature approach to their relationship based on honesty and transparency.
“I had a lot of s*** to do, and I still was very much in my ‘I feel un-loveable’ place, and I still was very much not where I wanted to be career-wise.” Her candid admission about feeling “un-loveable” resonates with many who struggle with self-worth issues while pursuing professional goals.
Lizzo admitted that before then, she had too many “wild defenses up” to have a successful relationship. These defensive mechanisms often develop as protection from past hurts but can become barriers to authentic connection.
“Even if a person came around that I was googly gaga about, I had these wild defenses up that made it almost impossible for a true, intimate relationship to occur.” Her recognition of these patterns demonstrates significant emotional intelligence and self-awareness, qualities that contribute to healthier relationships.
The couple’s story offers an alternative to the often-portrayed whirlwind romances of celebrity culture, instead showcasing the value of patience, friendship, and personal development. Their progression from colleagues to friends to partners illustrates how giving relationships time to evolve naturally can lead to more meaningful connections.
Throughout entertainment history, many notable couples have followed similar paths from friendship to romance, though few speak as openly about the process as Lizzo has. Her willingness to discuss her relationship journey provides fans with insight into the authentic person behind the public persona and chart-topping hits.
As Lizzo continues to navigate her flourishing career and personal life in the public eye, her relationship with Wright seems to provide a grounding force. The mutual respect and communication they developed as friends continues to serve them well as they build their life together beyond the spotlight.
