Oral pleasure is the act of incorporating candy, spices and certain fruit into your relationship to keep your mate satisfied according to Yanni Brown, a certified relationship educator who also teaches the popular Oral Pleasures workshop.
For better or worse, author-vixen Karrine Steffans owned up to her industry nickname and in one swoop, destroyed the stereotypes that determined women of color were too stuffy, stiff-necked or stuck up to perform the ultimate act of satisfying their mates.
The taboo subject of fellatio is now mainstream, with many married ladies signing up for workshops like Oral Pleasures to learn how to become the spicy wives that their husbands desire.
Brown’s workshops take the foreplay to a new level by incorporating sexy language, rhythmic motions, fruits, vibes and even candy to blow his mind, so to speak.
“Most of the time fellatio is a requirement for men, and men are dissatisfied with the way that it’s being done,” Brown tells rolling out. “Presentation is everything, and there are a lot of women who don’t like to do it, and it shows.”
Yanni’s Oral Pleasures Workshop Tips:
When you are enjoying the act of making love, it’s in your body language, and it’s in your caress and the way that you take the time to show him that you care. That comes off in the physical act of oral pleasures as well.
Use plenty of soft kisses, caressing and foreplay, and never allow the touching to stop.
You can look at him and wink if you care to do so, and that’s when you know you’re really doing a good job. Men are visual, and he wants to see you do what you do. If you know what you’re doing, he’ll be enthralled.
Dress up. Wear your boy shorts and stilettos and some nice lip gloss. That is going to excite him because you initiated this and got dressed up just for him.
Do it anytime any place, but don’t get arrested. A man loves a woman who takes the initiative. Don’t be aggressive (bossy), but definitely take the initiative.
Incorporate freshly cut, stimulating pineapples. The citrus in the pineapple is very strong and will give it a nice tingling sensation.
Take a small piece of banana and cover him with it. The banana is smooth and has an auditory quality.
Cook with ginger, adding it to the water, etc.. It is a natural stimulant for extending your time together.
Pop rock candy is something that you will find in any local sensual products store. Both of you can enjoy the fizzle this candy will create.
Oral pleasures shouldn’t be a source of shame, Yanni Brown adds. “I’m teaching women the art of lovemaking and sensual pleasure,” she states. “I want to stimulate your mind and take you [both] places. I want you to sensually please your partner and make love better twogether.”
Photos: Pineapple, Panpote; Bananas, Ambro.
