He Says: I want sex, no strings attached.
Some Gentleman’s Clubs have a VIP room, where sex acts do occur and the boundaries between dancing and prostitution aren’t so clearly defined, says Luther Campbell:
“This girl — we’ll call her ATL because she’s from Atlanta — says dudes cut deals with the [strippers] before they go to the backroom. A guy will let a [stripper] know that he is going to make it rain on her when she’s onstage. When she sees the money fluttering all around her, then she knows what she has to do.
ATL has worked at all the big strip clubs, such as Coco’s, King of Diamonds, and Tootsie’s Cabaret. There was a day when ATL would get on the top stage at any one of those titty bars and make $300 or $400 dancing to one song. Now she’s lucky to collect $10. More and more, girls are dancing less and just having sex.”
The bottom line: You have the option to ignore it, seek professional help (if your spouse has an addiction to strippers), and/or get with the program, and bring some dance moves into your own bedroom.
