The 4 Types of Cheaters: Who to Forgive, Who to Forget
I have had male friends and acquaintances who fell into one or more of each of those categories at different points in their lives. Even women I know have fallen into each of those categories.
You should be concerned if you are a woman, and you have identified that your male partner is guilty of being in the first two categories of cheaters. More than likely, he will be a repeat offender.
If your husband or boyfriend looks at you as his personal “good girl,” he is never going to want you to become kinkier and more adventurous in bed. That would ruin his perception of you. Similarly, if your spouse or male companion falls into the second category, you two need to have a good, long talk and assess each other’s needs. If he continues to feel like something is “missing” (e.g., he wants to have sex in public, but you do not), he is going to continue to cheat.
The latter two categories can be worked on and improved in a relatively short period of time. A man can be conceivably forgiven for falling into the latter two categories of cheating.
Make an effort to be your man’s true “fantasy woman,” and he will not want to risk having the best sex partner he’s ever had leave him.