So many good things have been happening with you lately. I think it’s best that we start with your book. Tell us about it.
Yes I have a relationship book out, and it’s called It’s Hard to Fight Naked.
Is it hard to fight naked?
It is very hard to fight naked. You know it is.
Tell us more.
My book is fun, and funny but it has a lot of real takeaways about relationships. I don’t claim to be an expert, but I am a woman that’s been through a lot when it comes to love. I share my experiences, and then I invite people to think differently about matters of the heart. As people, we seem to struggle the most in the thing that we were created for. So I decided to write this book, to help give some understanding from my perspective. There are tips, tricks, and all sorts of fun things that will help everyone — no matter their situation.
Describe the moment when you realized that you had experienced enough of the ups and downs of life to feel qualified to share your perspective.
I realized that I had gone through enough, when I examined my life, and realized that I had been the wife, the girlfriend, the side piece, the baby momma — you know, the list just kept getting longer. So I told myself that before the list got any longer, I needed to put pen to paper, and share what I know. Now, my publisher didn’t like the original title of my book. We were at odds for a while, because I wanted my book to be called: Stomach Full. Penis Empty. A Woman’s Guide to a Happy Marriage.
That’s such an awesome title.
Isn’t it? And I think it’s profoundly simple. With women, if your man’s stomach is full, and his penis is empty, you don’t have any problems in your home. Yeah, I said it! My personal theory is a BJ a day keeps the divorce attorney away. I truly believe that [there’s] stuff that you’ve gotta do if you [are] in it for the long haul with your marriage.
