Nicki Minaj wants women to demand more orgasms. “I have a friend who’s never had an orgasm in her life. In her life! That hurts my heart,” she said in a frank interview with racy mag Cosmopolitan.
The YMCMB rapper went on to describe the advice she gave her friend who has never climaxed “in her life”:
“I demand that I climax. I think women should demand that. I have a friend who’s never had an orgasm in her life. In her life! That hurts my heart. It’s cuckoo to me. We always have orgasm interventions where we, like, show her how to do stuff. We’ll straddle each other, saying, ‘You gotta get on him like that and do it like this.’ She says she’s a pleaser. I’m a pleaser, but it’s fifty-fifty.”
As for how Minaj’s very public break-up with Safaree Samuels affected the recording of her latest project, “The Pinkprint” she says: “I didn’t [set out] to write a personal album, but “The Pinkprint” came at a very crucial time in my life. I realized that people can up and take off at any given moment. As women, we are vulnerable and emotional, and that’s OK. I had to learn quickly that if you don’t have a sense of self, you can be destroyed by a man. You can be destroyed by a relationship. I had to ask myself, ‘Who am I? Is this good enough?’ I had to approve of myself and my skills.”
Luckily for fans of the “Bed of Lies” recording artist, whether she’s dishing out sex advice or mending her relationship wounds in the studio, she doesn’t plan on going anywhere, anytime soon. “Ten years from now, I will have two children, unless my husband wants three. I will be into my fitness a lot more, I will stop yo-yo dieting, and I’ll be a housewife with careers that I can run from home. I want to be able to cook for my children, bake cookies for them, and watch them grow up. I just want to be Mommy. Take them to school, go to the parent-teacher conference, help them with their homework, and put their work on the refrigerator,” Minaj said of where she sees herself ten years from now.
Interested in catching the rest of her interview? Pick up the July 2015 issue of Cosmo on newsstands June 9.