What is something you wished people knew about being celibate?
I really dug deeper into the spiritual side of sex. I realized that you are truly combining your soul and spirit with every person you choose to have sex with. If you decide not to build a life with the person you have sex with, it makes it extremely hard for you to get over them during the breakup stage. I also wish I had surrounded myself with more women and men who were celibate as well, prior to committing to celibacy.
What rules did you create around your celibacy?
I had to put strategies in place to reduce temptation so I don’t spend the night [at] any men’s house that I date. I don’t allow men to spend the night [at] my house.
I’m personally not being a wife to a boyfriend. If a man wants to stay overnight with me or if he wants me to come to his house and watch movies and cuddle, well he needs to be my husband.
