RushDee Williams is a Billboard-charting, platinum-selling music producer. However, above all things, he is a father of four. The Saginaw, Michigan native has worked hard to navigate the challenges of fatherhood and his career. Williams is very candid about the lessons life has given him and he imparts this wisdom to his children. Williams recently spoke with rolling out about the lessons of fatherhood and his hopes for his children.
What fatherhood experiences have taught you the most about yourself?
I’d have to say patience and communication. Growing with your children will test your ability to truly understand someone else’s soul. It helps you understand how to effectively communicate with the intent to teach. It also provides the understanding as to why waiting for seeds you sow to grow is well worth it.
Finish the sentence, Never give up on yourself because …
Every human on earth had a 1 in 400 trillion chance of being born. So if you’re reading this, you’ve already defeated the greatest odds known to mankind. If “faith is the size of a mustard seed” was a person, it would be you. Don’t ever give up on your potential to be who you were designed to be.
Name one life lesson that no one taught you, but should have.
Life taught me no one can help you heal the things you don’t reveal. It’s okay to need someone and it’s okay to take your time healing. My theory is if the last day of your life is the best day of your life nothing before that even mattered. Be vulnerable within reason, experience life, and learn now because later never comes and when it does it’s always right now.
What are your hopes for your children?
As a Black man, it’s tough living in the reality of unjust. We’re born innocent [but] quite so often found guilty. Your heart beats for your children, but aches when you think of the world you’ve brought them in. I hope my children understand life before they understand death and that teaches them to live mentally healthy, flourish, and bring life and love to every situation this world throws at them.
How would you describe your fatherhood culture?
Growing up in a blended family, I’m one of 20 plus children. The most important lesson my father taught was never give up on your children. Although in different households, my siblings and I grew up as if we were under one roof. I can confidently say that lesson singlehandedly molded me into the father I am today. To the men reading, never abandon your children, and always move with healthy intentions regarding your village.
