3. You always have to reach out
If the only way the two of you talk is if you initiate a conversation, this is a clear sign that the level of interest is not there. This usually means you aren’t a priority to this person. Think of it this way, if you went a week or two without reaching out first, how often would you talk? This could tell you all you need to know.
4. Go ghost at the mention of meeting up
Last sign, if at any mention of meeting in person they ghost or give you the runaround, odds are they don’t want to meet and probably aren’t as interested in you as you are in them. They may come up with an excuse, may agree to meet but never make plans, or maybe even ignore the question altogether.
If you notice any of these signs, you may want to slide back out of their DMs, they aren’t interested!