As fall begins, many young people, particularly Black Gen Zs, are shifting their focus from the typical carefree summer vibes to seeking deeper, more intimate relationships. A recent report from eharmony reveals that 75% of Gen Z individuals struggle to form emotional connections while dating. This statistic raises an important question: why are relationships becoming increasingly challenging for Black Gen Zs, and how can they cultivate the connections they desire?
The rise of committed relationships
According to Minaa B., a licensed social worker and relationship expert, the growing sense of loneliness among young people is prompting a search for fulfilling romantic relationships. Gen Z is not just looking for flings; they are actively seeking committed partnerships that can enhance their mental well-being.
Understanding Slow Dating
Gen Z has redefined dating norms, particularly through the concept of Slow Dating. This approach emphasizes building trust before physical intimacy, contrasting with Millennials, who focus on establishing a meaningful emotional connection. Both generations agree on the importance of consistent dating, with many suggesting at least two in-person dates per week to foster romantic bonds.
Utilizing dating apps
When it comes to dating apps, Gen Z is leveraging technology differently than previous generations. The eharmony report highlights that both Gen Z and Millennials find dating apps beneficial for achieving their dating goals. These platforms facilitate conversations that can lead to deeper emotional connections, aligning with the Slow Dating philosophy.
Future dating trends
As we move into the fall and winter months, Gen Z daters are expected to continue using dating apps as a primary tool for forming intimate connections. However, they are also open to meeting potential partners through mutual friends, with 40% of Gen Z and 43% of Millennials planning to use this method. This approach not only enhances security but also allows for a more authentic connection, as friends can vouch for each other.
Advice for single Gen Zs
For those who are single and eager to explore the dating scene, Minaa B. offers valuable advice. It’s essential to remain open-minded and view dating as a casual opportunity to get to know someone rather than adhering to a rigid checklist of expectations. Focus on discovering what makes your date happy, their values, beliefs and interests, rather than solely prioritizing physical appearance.
