Kayla Nicole thinks her success is only ever “attributed” to those she has dated. The statement comes amid growing discussions about women’s achievements being overshadowed by their romantic relationships in the media industry.
The 32-year-old Youtuber dated NFL star Travis, 35, in the years before he achieved worldwide fame through his relationship with pop megastar Taylor Swift, and after Kayla reached the final of reality show ‘Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test’, enjoyed being able to say that she achieved something independently. The show, known for its rigorous physical and mental challenges, tests celebrities’ endurance under extreme conditions.
“My success has been attributed to people that I was in close proximity to. And that’s not anything new for me. That’s something that happens to women all the time, especially just in the entertainment industry and public fields. I did this on my own,” she told People. This phenomenon, often referred to as “relationship overshadowing,” affects numerous women in the public eye.
“I’m tough, and I know that for a fact now.” Her performance on the show has garnered praise from both viewers and critics, with many highlighting her determination and physical prowess.
Kayla also admitted that she would “never close” herself off to the idea of finding love again and would “take the risk” of suffering a broken heart. Her openness about relationships has resonated with many of her 629,000 Instagram followers.
“Love is one of the best parts of life,” she expressed, reflecting on her experiences in the public eye.
“I would never close myself off to ever experiencing love again,” she continued, demonstrating resilience despite past challenges.
“I think too, with love comes heartbreak and with heartbreak comes love. It’s one and the same, and I would take the risk of heartbreak over and over if that meant that I get to experience love again.” Her perspective on relationships has earned support from fans who appreciate her vulnerability.
Kayla also admitted that she is trying to find someone new but has struggled with finding the one out of the guys she has met so far. This admission comes at a time when dating apps and social media have transformed the modern dating landscape.
“Dating-wise out on these streets is rough, okay?” she shared, echoing a common sentiment among millennials navigating the current dating scene.
“The men these days, I just said the other day, it’s not God’s best work out here…. but I’m dating. I’m dating. Successfully? Ah, the jury’s still out, but I’m dating.” Her candid approach to discussing dating challenges has struck a chord with many followers.
The influencer‘s journey from being known primarily for her relationship with Travis to establishing her own identity in entertainment showcases a broader trend of women reclaiming their narratives in the public sphere. Her success on ‘Special Forces’ has helped establish her as a formidable competitor in her own right.
Kayla’s YouTube channel, which focuses on lifestyle, fitness, and personal development, has grown significantly in recent months, demonstrating her ability to build an independent brand. Her content regularly reaches millions of viewers, with her most popular videos focusing on self-improvement and personal growth.
Industry experts note that her transition from being primarily known for her relationships to establishing herself as an independent personality represents a growing trend in social media influence. Her approach to content creation, combining authenticity with professional polish, has helped her maintain a loyal following.
The reality star’s recent success also highlights the changing landscape of celebrity culture, where personal achievement and professional accomplishment are increasingly valued over relationship status. Her story serves as an inspiration for others looking to establish their own identity separate from their romantic relationships.
As Kayla continues to build her brand and explore new opportunities in entertainment, her message of resilience and self-discovery resonates with audiences worldwide. Her journey from relationship-defined celebrity to independent achiever reflects a broader cultural shift in how we view success and personal worth.