It’s time for a Porsha pause.
Porsha Williams is taking a break from dating after finalizing her divorce from Simon Guobadia. The divorce proceedings were highly publicized and drew significant media attention throughout the process.
The 44-year-old reality star has revealed that she’s taking a step back from dating to focus on herself and her own wellbeing. This decision reflects a growing trend among celebrities who prioritize mental health after relationship endings.
“It’s lonely. I can’t connect with other men,” said Williams, who married Guobadia in 2022, in an interview with People. “You would think I’m dating already and stuff, right? People try to introduce me. But it’s just … when it’s not the same, it’s not the same.” Her marriage to the businessman was frequently featured across various media platforms and social networks.
Williams actually plans to remain single until she feels “whole” again. This approach demonstrates her commitment to personal growth and emotional stability before entering future relationships.
“I’m going to do it different this time. I’m going to be alone until I’m whole. And then when I’m whole, then I will open myself back up so I don’t make the same mistake again,” said the TV star, who has Pilar, 6, with Dennis McKinley. She said she is also determined to avoid repeating past mistakes. Her relationship with McKinley was also documented extensively on reality television shows.
Williams admits that her acrimonious split from Guobadia has forced her to reconsider her approach to relationships. The breakup involved complex legal proceedings and public statements from both parties involved.
The “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star also confessed to being a “people pleaser.” This personality trait has influenced many of her past relationship decisions and personal choices throughout her career.
“I used to only see myself through men’s eyes, and that’s why I went through a lot of abuse with men in my 20s. And then when I got on reality TV for the first three years, I only saw myself through what the fans would say in the comments. I was like a walking culmination of what the comments thought,” she shared. Social media commentary has become a significant factor in how reality stars perceive themselves and make life decisions.
“But now, I could give zero you-know-whats. I’m my own person. I took charge of my life, financially, in my relationships — everything. I’m really confident now. But something like this, it shakes your confidence, you know? Because you work so hard and you think everything is going one way and when it doesn’t work out, it’s disappointing.” Williams has built a successful business empire beyond her television career, including various entrepreneurial ventures.
Williams is determined to fully heal before embarking on a new romance. Her commitment to self-improvement includes therapy, personal reflection, and focusing on her role as a mother.
“I can’t just feel it with someone else. I can’t just get underneath someone else and feel it. I can’t just drink it away like I have in my past,” she said. Williams has been open about her struggles with coping mechanisms and unhealthy relationship patterns throughout her public life.
“It’s a rough road, healing this way. It’s dry — on every level of being dry. But it’s needed.” The reality star’s honesty about her healing journey resonates with many fans who have experienced similar relationship challenges and personal growth periods.
Williams’ decision to pause dating represents a significant shift in how she approaches relationships and personal fulfillment. Her transparency about the loneliness and difficulty of this process has garnered support from fans and fellow celebrities who appreciate her vulnerability and authenticity.
The Atlanta native continues to focus on her television career, business ventures, and most importantly, her daughter Pilar, while navigating this transformative period in her personal life. Her journey serves as an example of prioritizing mental health and personal growth over societal expectations about moving on quickly after divorce.
