What Cheaters Want in Bed: Author Alan Roger Currie Speaks
The man who suffers from what is known as “The Madonna / Whore Complex” does not consider his romantic companion as someone to enjoy sex with; he looks at her more as a “trophy” to show off, and to keep around as a great mother to his children, assuming kids are involved.
He wants his woman-on-the-side to be completely kinky and erotically uninhibited. He wants everything about her to represent “free-for-all” sex. He doesn’t want to feel obligated to “respect” her in the morning.
Sometimes, a man loves his woman but when it comes to erotic chemistry between them, something is “missing.” So, consequently, he constantly leaves himself open for opportunities to connect with another woman who he thinks will fill the ‘sexual void’ that he is experiencing in his relationship.
The unintentional cheater went from having a conversation with a woman to simply “making out” to having sex. He wants something as simple receiving an erotic massage from this woman, oral pleasure, or sex.