Infidelity. This is the most common cause of divorce. Breaking the promise to remain faithful to your partner is a bond that may forever be crushed. Your attention is diverted, and the focus is no longer on your partner. Monogamy is essential in any connection to avoid entanglements.
Immaturity. Getting married is blissful. As little girls, we envision marrying the man of our dreams and living happily ever after. A childish mindset can’t think about what happens after the “I do’s.” A lack of life experiences can derail any chance you have of making an informed and well-thought-out decision.
Incompatibility. If one says left, the other says right. You two can’t pull it together to make the simplest of decisions. A union thrives when a couple can have fun together and enjoy their time together. Without compatibility, happiness is hard to maintain.
Unrealistic expectations. People often have ideas about love and marriage that are unrealistic. If a couple doesn’t share similar principles and ideals, problems arise. Discuss expectations for yourself and the union to ensure that both of you are on the same page.
Let’s face it — no one gets married to get divorced, but it’s reality.
Anissa D. Blair is an Atlanta-based author and blogger with a passion for writing and being a mother and wife. In her blog, “Straight, No Chaser,” she represents everyday women “just trying to cope doing average s—” and covers all topics — from the good, the bad and the ugly of navigating through life’s obstacles and roadblocks, to building and keeping successful relationships while trying to maintain your sanity. No taboo topics here. You can read her work at rollingout.com/anissa/ and follow her on social media @anissadblair on Instagram and @anissablair on Facebook.
