If you’re ready to find your cuddle buddy, set these ground rules.
Purpose. Not everyone knows the purpose of a cuffing partnership. Let it be known that there is an expiration date. Your transparency will be appreciated.
Expectations. As people become more relaxed with COVID restrictions, your hunger for being touched intensifies. Be upfront about what you’re looking to have — a casual relationship or potential partner for life. Don’t lower your standards or settle for something that you don’t want. State specifically if you’re only interested in a friend with benefits.
Safety guidelines. Hello, we are still in a pandemic. Once you’ve found your potential partner, it’s time to get down to business. That urge is calling your name, but be careful. A must-have is a conversation about exposure to COVID and the infamous STDs. Ask for test results. If they aren’t willing to provide them, then keep it moving.
You may hear from old loves and unfortunate prospects, but stay grounded and follow your rules. Remember, you only have to hang on until March. Unless COVID persists, then that’s another article.
May the hunting begin.
Anissa D. Blair is an Atlanta-based author and blogger with a passion for writing and being a mother and wife. In her blog, “Straight, No Chaser,” she represents everyday women “just trying to cope doing average s—” and covers all topics — from the good, the bad and the ugly of navigating through life’s obstacles and roadblocks, to building and keeping successful relationships while trying to maintain your sanity. No taboo topics here. You can read her work at rollingout.com/anissa/ and follow her on social media @anissadblair on Instagram and @anissablair on Facebook.
