4. She never deleted that old online dating profile. If you met your significant other online, you cannot assume that she will delete her old dating profile just because your relationship is in full swing, notes CheaterVille founder James McGibney: “Innocent victims are engaging in online relationships with members of popular dating sites assuming that they are single. You can’t argue with the numbers, which clearly indicate that’s not the case. A little research now can save you a lot of heartache later.” And, she’s online now more than ever. If she’s not building a new website for work, or writing that next bestseller novel, your woman may be clicking around on Facebook, poking old boyfriends or finding new love interests on social sites.