Guys, you’ve been brainwashed. We’re not supposed to be all warm and fuzzy, right? We’re not supposed to have this soft side – because we must be hard and keep our swagger up, right? We’re not supposed to let a chick know that she is dragging us around by our nose because it’s wide open, right? Wrong. If you love the woman, let her know. And, in case you can’t figure out how to do it, here are a few good ways.
1. Put Her First. So what if there is a game on tonight. If you’re woman is hinting that she really needs you to be home listening to how hard her day was, tell the fellas you’ll catch them next time. They aren’t going anywhere … but she will if you don’t fly right.
2. Pay Attention! While most men are straight and direct, women tend to be more subtle and share things more indirectly. Moreover, they will beat around bushes like crazy, but this is when you really have to listen up and pay attention, because in her subtlety, she’s telling you exactly what she really wants from you.
3. Just Say It. If you want to let your woman know that you truly love her, and want to be by her side for life, and you treasure the time that you spend with her, and you want to grow old and look back on a lifetime of memories with her, here’s what you do: tell her. Yes. Open up your mouth and say all those things you feel.
–mark anderson
