“This is the way I am, get over it! I am never going to change.”
Newsflash! You can’t force a person to change. No one will change unless they truly want to for themselves. Individuals naturally tend to change as they mature in awareness.You can’t change others but you can change the way you look at things. By maturing you will get better at time management, financial planning and possibly any other thing that bugs you in relationships.
“Well, you did it too when you left that dirty dish in the sink two months ago!”
When you make a mistake there’s no reason to bring up the past. Just because you forgot to clean up your mess doesn’t mean when you are confronted that you should remind him/her that he/she did the same thing two months ago. A simple apology will fix the matter. You can’t be selfish in a relationship. You have to be considerate of one another in order for the relationship to last and become successful.
