Ladies, you’ve met someone who’s peaked your interest and now you’ve developed a crush. All of a sudden, you’re doing cartwheels when he responds to your text messages (after a day or two), with the hopes that he will initiate a phone call or perhaps a date with you. Unfortunately, his inconsistent attention to you has you on an emotional roller-coaster and it’s all a game. Ladies, find out why you should never chase a man for the sake of having a man!
- You look desperate. This is not a good look for any woman who respects herself and wants others to, as well. The look of desperation is one that you’ll never be able to or have a hard time shaking.
- You’re chasing him and he’s running the other way. Are you chasing a man that’s afraid of being in a relationship or having a commitment? Please, know that he’s running away from you because he doesn’t want to be caught. So, with that being said, why are you running behind him?
- You’re driving yourself crazy. Your phone is now your best friend and enemy. You find yourself gazing at your text message screen (hoping he will send a message to you), when all he’s doing is playing with your heart – when he takes him time to respond or doesn’t respond at all.
- You neglect your family and friends. You’re so busy chasing behind him that you stop spending quality time with your friends and family, who have and will always be there for you.
- You can’t change his mind. If a man has told you that he’s not interested or doesn’t want to commit, then there’s no point in trying to change his mind. Why waste your precious time that you can’t ever get back? You shouldn’t have to force anyone to be with you…..love should always be natural.
- Can cause low self-esteem. When you waste your time chasing a man who doesn’t feel the same way you do, you’re destroying your self-esteem. Basically, you’re begging him to be with you and subconsciously you’re telling yourself that you’re not good enough or worthy enough … and you and I know, that’s not true.
- You have choices. There are handsome, smart, intellectual and confident men out there, who desire to be in a committed relationship. So, why are you chasing that man that doesn’t want you? You deserve so much better.
The next time you feel yourself lacing up those tennis shoes, remember these reasons why you shouldn’t do it. Your man will come when he’s supposed to and you won’t have to lift a finger or foot, to get him. Don’t be afraid to be on your own. It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to find a good man. Just remember, until you stop chasing the wrong guys, you’re never going to catch Mr. Right!
