Myra C. Harris, Author at Rolling Out

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Are you no longer attracted to your mate? We all want to believe that we will always look sexy, beautiful or handsome forever, as will our mates. However, life does not always work that way. Think about it — it’s not always easy for a woman to lose weight after bearing children, and he may even…

Are you married to or dating a momma’s boy? Do you feel like his mother is the No. 1 lady in his life? Ladies, keep in mind that it is natural for a man to love his mother, as she is the first woman to have that bond with her son, so dating or marrying…

Mistress, do you really think he is leaving his wife? Being a mistress was once considered “taboo,” until recent years, where now you often hear of it raising its ugly head. However, being a mistress should never be an ambition or goal for any woman. I am certain that when you were a young child that you…

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Are you smothering your mate in your relationship? Have you loved your mate so much that it begins to suffocate them and he or she starts to feel “imprisoned” in the relationship? This type of love is better known as “smothering” and may even come across as controlling and overwhelming. In most instances, it’s never about love,…

Are you dating or considering dating someone older? In our day to day lives, you just never know where you may find true love. You may even find yourself attracted to, or very compatible with someone who is significantly older than you are. So, should you attempt to date the person and see what happens…

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Why are you making excuses and staying in a relationship with the wrong mate? I’m sure at some point in your dating life, your family or friends have passed judgment on who you should date, so who am I to tell you about your man or woman? At the end of the day, the most…

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Are you the backup or plan B chick? Ladies, have you ever been in a situation where you parted ways and blamed yourself and even prayed to have him back in your life again? You promise to be a better mate, if you are given the opportunity. You feel lost, empty, unhappy and miserable. You would do anything…

Ladies, are you competing against another woman for a man’s attention? Competition is definitely a part of the human nature and most importantly dating. And, we as women are competitive by nature.

Are you in a relationship with a psycho man or woman? Are you unsure of the signs? All of us can be fooled or may have been (a time or two), as psychos look just like you and me. However, they have no conscience and will not stop until they have turned your relationship into…

Have you considered dating your co-worker or boss, perhaps the pretty receptionist or the handsome executive vice president? There are more than a couple adages that caution against getting your honey where you make your money or dipping your pen in company ink, but yet we often insist on doing it anyway. Sometimes it works and…

Casual sex: let’s first define and understand what it is. To put it simply, casual sex is a term given to sexual intercourse between two consenting adults, who are not involved in a relationship or have any feelings whatsoever towards each other. It is driven more towards a fulfillment of one’s physical needs rather than emotional ones.…

We all know that relationships are give and take. There is also going to be some level of compromise, especially when it comes to sharing some or all of your life with someone else. What should you be willing to sacrifice for a relationship, and what is too much? Relationships should allow you to grow…

What defines a strong and healthy relationship to you and your mate? As you are aware, relationships don’t blossom overnight, but instead require time and effort by both parties. In order to see the fruits of your labor in developing a strong, successful relationship, you have to be willing to put in the work. Below,…

If you are looking for romantic and sexy ideas for Valentine’s Day, then you’ve come to the right place. Below, you will find several romantic and sexy ideas that you can use to build the romance in your relationship. – Snuggle by the fireplace. Get a fire going in the fireplace (if you have one,…

It doesn’t matter if you are a Panthers or Broncos fan; the most important thing to remember is how to enjoy Super Bowl 50 with your special someone. With that being said, your mate may have no interest in the teams that are playing or even the sport of football.

While the rest of us are searching for true love, some individuals may be looking for someone to provide financial support for them, while being in love is secondary.

Perhaps in your lifetime you’ve met someone and can’t help but to be memorized by her or him. You get to know them a little better and before you know it, you’re in love with a married woman or man. And, this would be completely normal … if she or he weren’t already married to someone else. Never fall in love with…

In my own personal experience, I’ve struggled on how to cut ties with an ex, because I was still emotionally attached. We often feel this way because our partners have met and satisfied our needs and when they are no longer a part of our lives, we tend to feel empty or even lost. You…

The weather has been a bit deceptive this winter. Despite the 60- and 70- degree weather we’ve experienced thus far, be certain that winter will be here for a while. Mother Nature is sure to catch us off guard with snow, sleet and ice. It’s going to get frigid, so you and your mate need to…

While you may have already set your personal New Year’s resolutions, it’s also time to start thinking about your romantic resolutions for 2016. These are relationship goals that will keep you and your significant other happy and on the right track. As we all know, when you’re in a relationship, it’s very easy to slip…