Baltimore-based, but New Orleans-bred author Vince Dwriter has penned a new book titled The Cheating Game.
“It gives you an inside look at the male mind. Actually, it gives you three different views of the male mind. The Cheating Game is a book about thee different men who display three different ways of cheating, and suffer three sets of consequences,” explains Dwriter. “Men cheating is such a prevalent topic in today’s society and I feel my story is relevant and enlightening.”
Read what else he has to say.
Why did you write the book?
I wrote the book because I try to write about topics that are prevalent in the urban community and society as a whole.
What’s the story behind the title?
When you look at it, cheating is a form of a game because the object is not to get caught.
What do you hope readers will glean from reading this book?
I try to tie a message into each book I write. The message with this book is the fact that cheating feels good, and you may have fun along the way, but eventually you will suffer harsh consequences.
How long did it take you to write the book?
It took me three months to write the book.
What was your regimen to complete the book?
I like to work out because it relaxes my mind. After I work out, I will sit at my desk and visualize the content of the chapter, and then I begin writing the chapter.
How did you arrive at this career choice?
I was a sports recruiter and I worked for a company which charged up to $200 for the service of helping student-athletes increase their chances of earning an athletic scholarship. I came up with the idea to write a how-to guide as an inexpensive alternative to our service.
One day on Facebook, an author posted an author event. I registered for the event and he told me I wasn’t qualified. When I asked why, he said because I wasn’t a real author and I just wrote a how-to guide. He said the event was for authors who wrote fiction books with characters and a storyline. I told him I could write a fiction book if I tried, and his response was that it’s not as easy as it seems. He basically doubted me, and I felt disrespected and that’s how I started writing urban fiction.
What separates you from others in your field?
What separates me is the fact I’m a competitor. I don’t hate on anyone in the genre’s success, but I aim to equal that individual’s success because the competitive juice is part of my DNA.
[The] traits most conducive to success [are] dedication, determination, passion and an intense work ethic.
How do you stay at the leading edge of your craft?
I try stay leading my craft by writing about unique topics. I seek subjects other authors aren’t writing about.
How do you measure success?
I measure success by putting out a quality product that the readers enjoy, and I also measure success by the number of book sales accumulated.
Who do you consider to be your peers?
Treasure Blue, NeNe Capri, Wahida Clark, Myss Shan, La’Tonya West, David Weaver, Zane, and fellow New Orleanians Susanna K. Green-Sawyer and Chenell Parker.
Who do you see or use as examples to emulate?
Examples of me to emulate or both from my hometown of New Orleans. I try to emulate Tyler Perry because I appreciate the struggle he went through to achieve success. He invested in himself and initially it failed, but his drive and determination eventually conquered all.
The second person I try to emulate is Master P. He was the first person from New Orleans to set the blueprint on how to independently build a business. He proved an inner-city youth from New Orleans can build a successful brand through hard work and dedication.
What affirmations do you repeat to yourself that contribute to your success?
The affirmation I repeat to myself is failure is a part of success. Normally before you succeed, you will encounter some type of failure. In this situation you must absorb the pain of the failure in order to feel the vindication of success.
What role does technology play in your daily routine?
My Droid cellphone is my everything. It’s my non-human personal assistant.
Define your brand.
The Vince D’Writer brand is a brand that is socially conscious, provides entertainment, and teaches a life lesson.
What is your favorite vacation destination?
I like going to King of Prussia, Pennsylvania, to the Valley Forge Casino Resort. I like it there because it has a quiet and secluded scenery, but it also has a casino, great restaurants, and great activities such as live boxing.
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
If I could change one thing about myself, I would be less stubborn. When I’m convinced I’m right about something, it’s almost impossible to change my mind.
If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
If I could change one thing I would eliminate cancer. I’m so sick of hearing that word.
What does it take to be iconic?
To be iconic you must have a thirst to be the best at your craft. You must have a tireless work ethic, always stay one step ahead, and you must rise above the cream of the crop.
In your estimation, who has achieved iconic status?
When I think of iconic status I think Oprah. Way back in 1983 when she was on AM Chicago, who would have ever thought this strong sophisticated African American woman would achieve billionaire status?
My role models are my late grandfather, Jim Griffith; and my cousin, the late great Chicago Bears running back Walter Payton. My grandfather was a role model because he taught me life lessons. My cousin was a role model because looking at him as a relative showed me it’s not impossible to become a famous celebrity. It may be difficult and requires hard work and a window of opportunity, but it’s not impossible.
Find his books on www.amazon.com/author/vincedwriter.
