Tamar Braxton finally explains why she won’t go back to Vince

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After hearing from matriarch Evelyn Braxton and watching Vincent Herbert plead on social media to keep his marriage intact, Tamar Braxton finally took to Instagram to give an explanation as to why she is going through with her divorce from Herbert – and it is a lengthy explanation, at that.

She said she was tired of staying married only for “face value” and revealed that at some point, Vince told her to “get the f— out.”

Sometimes we stay ‘married’ for face value or to say ‘we did it’ but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken & further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary!” Tamar captioned her post.

You can say he did this, she did that, I put up with ‘this’ & I’ve suffered & endured ‘this’ for so long…but the TRUTH is that this was your choice 2 stay,” she added.

We get so caught up in WE are ‘winning’ in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.”

She continued, “Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue? Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are ‘our’ friends? Or, we fight but that’s ‘passion’ let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of ‘your’ house when I’m the house of cards? None of this is ok…& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door…I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine! That LAST time was the LAST time.”

The pair, who share a 4-year-old son, Logan, called it quits at the end of October after nearly nine years together.

Read her entire post below:
Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you don’t have to like me & while I’m woke,I can see that most of you don’t now..even when you did.?something has changed w/her..but it’s ok, because I don’t..well,didn’t like me either.I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together,to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope,faith,Love& dignity that I️ once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince?￰゚マᄑ‍♀ ..at least not anymore.married people who are reading will know what I mean.

Sometimes we stay”married”for face value or to say”we did it”?￰゚マᄒbut the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did this,she did that,I️ put up with”this”& I’ve suffered & endured”this”for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay?￰゚マᄑ‍♀we get so caught up in WE are”winning”in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I️ decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.

I wanted to have a relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out shit online?￰゚マᄑ‍♀..some of us ?￰゚マᄑhave been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared, what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends,or she’s never home,or he’s very general when he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him”? or he’s so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?When is enough enough? Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our” friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”❌ let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of “your”house when I’m the house of cards?None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time?￰゚マᄑ

Terry Shropshire
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2 Comments
  1. these celebrities is like the rest of us bent on social media being our only way to express ourselve does her fans need to know details of a private divorce? or family matters , she grew up in the text or nothing era , and twitter is her best friend like trump .. she really still angry over that REAL SHOW diss, and vince had something to do with her firing , i think he pissed off the executives and she took the blow , and i think a lot of his financial issues is tamar not selling albums too .. he kind of know if she get to tony braxton status she gonna leave anyway .. so why not get it poppin now , he is real jealous of her , cause after all she is a braxton first and her moma and sisters are wayyyyy to much in her marriage ,, the reason all of them have no man … they are all jeallous of vince and tamar … they come off as supportive ,, but they have called tamar bratt , spoiled , mean ,selfish , TONY HAS the fame but no money and we all saw what she did with that bankruptsey she still suffering , and kerry was in her way cause she had to support him too . trina husband is a mexican who probably family dont care for him being with a black chick .. and a mexican man is traditional they want stay long if pressured ,, the rest of them cant keep a man either , towannda , eveloyn trina , tony , tracy is the only one who can hold her man and is not controlled by money .. i wonder where they get them eyes from cause the moma and daddy dont look like any of them. ummm

  2. Tamarind it sounds like you’re looking for an excuse to leave. I think you’re leaving because you no longer need his money. Everybody knows you only married that man for his money. He has always been jealous, it’s just now you want to get loose and he ain’t having it. So, you left him for that. I believe he has always cheated on you and you knew it. But you stayed for the money, now you got your own you can leave. Well leave then

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