Boris Kodjoe on love
Character: Graham, ex-boyfriend No. 3
On chasing love versus falling in love …
Being complete as a person is a prerequisite to have love, to find love. Your energy attracts the same energy. When you are complete as person, you love yourself; you will attract the same person.
In relationships, how do you overcome differences in perspectives?
You remain an individual. A lot of people love romanticize the notion that “we are going to become one.” You will always be an individual while understanding there is someone there who you need to be considerate of and compromise for. You need to learn each other’s dance steps. Marriage is learning about, accepting and respecting each other and keeping it sexy.
