A woman may give you her mind, body and soul and deep down inside, you know that you genuinely care about her or may even love her. However, there are some things that women just don’t share with their mate. Here are 10 secrets women never share with that will definitely fascinate you.
- Listens to those first voicemails. Do you remember when the two of you first started dated? All the sweet messages you’d leave on her voicemail? Well, don’t be surprised if she saved all the messages and has listened to them repeatedly.
- A little flirting won’t hurt. If you ever see her flirting with the bartender, mechanic or personal trainer, just know that she’s flirting with you … through him. We love it when you’re a little jealous, but not over the top!
- Starts fights when being ignored. At some point during our female lives, some of us try to force emotions out of our mates. Men, think back to those crazy fights that stemmed out of nowhere — all we really wanted was your attention. So, when you see a fight starting to brew, give us the attention that we need, please!
- Our BFFs know it all. Men, in this day and time, it’s hard for ladies to have a good man and keep it a secret. So, we share some things with our BFF. It could be your high credit score, the amount of money you have in the bank or even the size of your package. Men, I’m sure some of you have witnessed instances when your mate’s BFF smirks at you (for some unapparent reason). Hint, hint — she knows!
- How many men she’s actually slept with. Men, I know you think you know your mate’s very well, but if you’ve ever asked that magic question “how many men have you slept with,” some/most of the time, even with a straight face, we lie. If we say three, it’s probably five.
- The competition. Men, we may not fess up and tell you, but we’ve checked out your ex on Instagram, Facebook or Twitter (maybe all three). We want to know if there is any true competition (that we need to be worried about).
- The relationship is over. Men, you may not be aware of it, but your mate’s BFF and friends knew two weeks ago that the relationship was coming to an end — sorry that you were the last to know!
- Who’s paying the bill? Men, even though women are high-powered CEOs and executives in 2015, but if we offer to pay the bill and you allow us on our first date, we really think you’re cheap. Be a gentleman — pick up the check.
- Memories from past relationships. Men, a lot of women may not confess to this, but they do keep some memories of past relationships. It could be a picture, birthday or Christmas card, or maybe even a love letter. However, it doesn’t mean that they are still in love with their ex. These little things just remind us how good it is to feel loved and knowing that the details from the past have helped us to become the wonderful person that we are for our current mate, today.
- His family. Men, even if a woman doesn’t like your family, she will never tell you because she doesn’t want to jeopardize her happy relationship with you or hurt your feelings. In most instances, women will just keep their mouths closed, because we don’t want to force you to choose between your family and us. Instead, we just avoid being around those special family members.
There are a lot of things women keep from men because they don’t want to hurt their mate’s feelings. And, now that I think about it, there are other things that could be added to this list … I’m just saying!
