4. Having a baby is a bigger commitment than marriage. After a very bad marriage and divorce, Porsha Williams decided she wants a baby by any means necessary. She found a good-looking ex-boyfriend and proceeded to try to convince him to give her a baby. Unfortunately, it’s not that simple and things went left when the ex-boyfriend quit his job to spend all his time with Porsha. Girl, haven’t we learned anything from Sherri Shepherd? Babies and broke men don’t make good career moves.