In addition to the gift of understanding, think about what your special introvert really likes, and find a way to give them something of meaning. Has this person ever said they wished they had taken karate or gone to an NFL game, learned to play golf, or experienced an escape room? How about a membership to a motor club, the Y for a swim class, or a movie or music streaming service? Other ideas include a membership to a wine or book club, or a gift certificate to the spa, the movie theater, a yoga studio or photography workshop.
How about wireless headphones, which allow introverts to be in their heads, lost in their music, in a podcast, or whatever turns them on at the time? Anything that will feed their souls, allow them to decompress, recharge or re-energize in a little solitude will have meaning and will most likely be appreciated.
Also, you could just ask! But you must understand that introverts process differently and may not be able to rattle off a list of 10 items the second you ask. Introverts are introspective, reflective and need time to think.
So, let them know that you want to give them something in the spirit of Christmas, Kwanzaa or whatever tradition you celebrate, and give them a couple days to get back to you. If they come back with nothing, or say they don’t want anything special, you can take a little time to reflect, and remember those things that make your special introvert smile. If you can’t think of anything, always remember that the gift of understanding, with a little alone time, and a meal with intimate one-on-one conversation, especially after the chaos of the holidays, will be a winner.
Give that introvert in your life something with meaning.
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