15 sexy text messages that will make your mate come home early from work
Sexting is the act of exchanging sexually titillating electronic messages with the person you fancy. Gone are the days when just looking into your mate’s eyes could arouse you sexually, now you have to scintillate your partner’s senses by talking dirty to him or her (i.e., writing dirty). This is a great way to keep him or her thinking about you and sex when you are not together. Sexting is a prequel to foreplay, as it allows you to turn your partner on even before you get into the act of lovemaking.
In fact, you can bring back the romance, love and passion you’re missing in your relationship and in the bedroom, simply by pushing a few buttons on the cellphone that you always have with you. Keeping the spark alive is one of the main goals for most couples. When the initial excitement of a new relationship dies down, it can be difficult trying to rekindle it (especially your sex life).
The key to sending a sexy text message is to keep it interesting and subtle. With sexting, you are letting your partner know that you are ready for the act and sharing any fantasies that you may have, and what you expect from your mate in the bedroom. It brings in the spice factor and broadens the sexual boundaries between you and your mate. Also, some people are more comfortable sexting their dirty thoughts, than conveying them face-to-face.
While actually coming up with the sexy text messages to send to your mate is rather easy, but how you use them requires a bit more thought and finesse. So before giving you the 15 sexting examples, I need to explain some crucial things. First, sexy texts should not be a daily thing. If you send your mate a message every day, it’s going to lose its power to turn him/her on and arouse them quickly. A much better strategy is to send your mate sexy text messages sparingly — about once or twice per week, at completely different times. This way, each message he or she receives will be a real surprise. Now, the moment you’ve been waiting for – here are 15 sexy text messages that are sure to the keep the spark alive:
- “I’ll meet you in the back of the car tonight at 8, OK?”
- “I think your lips are very sensuous. I’m referring to the ones that are visible, but I’m dying to see the other pair!”
- “If you want to scream tonight, stop by after work.”
- “I want to take you to Orgasm City. Are you ready?”
- “May I show you my 50 Shades of Grey?”
- “I will be your prisoner tonight (handcuffs and all).”
- “What are your plans for me tonight? Would you like to taste something sweet?”
- “How about some strawberry syrup all over?”
- “I want to play with you in the office.”
- “I have a big surprise for you. It is in my pants and it will blow your mind.”
- “Will you be my prey and I will be the hunter?
- “If you can guess what color my panties are, then when you get home, I’ll give you some fellatio.”
- “I love your necktie. Can we use it tonight?”
- “I was cooking something with a lot of milk chocolate and nuts in it. Will you come by and lick it off?”
- “I’ve lost something. Would you allow me to look for it, under your dress?”
P.S. Before you send your racy texts, double and triple check that you’re sending it to the intended recipient. The very last thing you want to do is to send it to your co-worker, mother or boss!
–myra c. harris is the author of How to Get a Man: From the Kitchen, to the Bedroom, to the Ring, which can be purchased at www.letaypublishing.com.
