Space: One of the next greatest gifts you can give? Space. Being alone for a few hours is not intimidating for your introverted loved one. They value this time and are their most productive and creative selves when they have time alone to think, or just be.
Social interference: Though introverts definitely enjoy a great party, they definitely have their limits. Introverts truly appreciate the interference our extroverted friends run when they jump into the conversation or create a social diversion to allow introverts to “escape” a dull conversation, monotonous small talk, or if it works for everyone, don’t be opposed to letting that introvert leave early, or skip the party altogether.
Time to recover: Last but not least, give your special introvert some time. Again, introverts recharge their batteries by disengaging and being alone. Don’t overbook back-to-back celebrations this holiday season if you don’t want your special introvert to turn into the Grinch. Give them the time they need to replenish their energy and recover from all of the socializing. It will do wonders! You may be surprised that, with a renewed spirit, they are the one’s dragging you to the next party.
In short, if you are that extrovert who loves an introvert, the best thing you can give this Christmas is understanding. Introverts are just wired differently. They are highly sensitive to stimulation and can become exhausted from multiple personalities, energies, sounds, noise, lights and action. So while you fabulous extroverts may thrive on all of the activity during the holiday season, your amazing introverts are the opposite and may need a break — so give it to them.
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