5. Don’t bring people in your bedroom, unless you want them to stay! Rumors continue to swirl about Kandi and RHOA friend to the show Shemea having a threesome with Kandi and her husband Todd. Although the rumors haven’t been proven, next week’s episode will address the issue yet again. We hope this isn’t true because we’re rooting for Kandi and Todd and threesomes have a reputation of being detrimental to a happy union. If you need to keep it sexy, dress up and role play but girl don’t give your husband the keys to someone else’s honeypot. You may be having fun but he could end up with an addiction.