To the ones who matter
My Black men, I wanted to simply say that I see you. I pray for you. I value you more than you could ever know.
This has been a year of profound grief for so many. I know that the weight on your shoulders has increased exponentially.
I also see your daily navigation of workplace politics, family needs, social expectations — all while attempting to steady your footing during a “new normal.”
Some of you have shared with me your frustrations and fears with the seemingly millions of challenges you are called upon to silently master.
Maybe your heart is torn on a matter. Maybe you don’t have the words to mend a situation. Maybe you put on a brave face because you are the rock for everyone around you. Maybe you have been feeling sad lately. Or angry.
Maybe you’re tired.
Maybe you simply want to go for a jog and return home.
Maybe you’re doing just fine.
Either way, wherever you are in your journey, I honor you there. Please know that you are hand-selected by God. You are a stunning reflection of divinity and sublimely human.
Know that you don’t have to be perfect or get it right every time. I celebrate that you usually do get it right, however. My guys are the truth!
Please take care of your mental health during this season. Please nourish your body and mind. I pray your peace, protection and prosperity.
I will be here praying for you.
I wish I could hug each of you, share a meal and tell those stupid inside jokes we may have, see you at the family gatherings, work the gala and conference circuit, pull off an incredible TV shoot, speak to your undergrads again, etc.
But since we can’t right now, please know that I carry you in my heart and I’m so proud of you.
Thank you for who you are in this world.
Now rest. I speak that tomorrow will be kind to you.
Kings… know you are valued, needed, covered and loved.
—Zakiya Larry, CEO of Quest Media Training, is a celebrity media coach, brand expert and elevation strategist.
