Happy couples are the epitome of romance and when you see a happy couple, you know it. Everyone wants to be them and yet everyone envies them, at the same time. Here are seven tips that will help you and your mate show the world just how happy you are.
– Compliment, respect and thank your mate. Compliment, respect and thank your mate (all the time) — whether you are at church, the beach or at a restaurant. Be even more complimentary and respectful when others are close enough to hear you. And, definitely be most respectful, affectionate and complimentary, when there are familiar couples around, who don’t know how to treat each other. Other couples will desire to be as loving as you, while learning how to be respectful with great manners.
– Get close in public. Hold hands and get close in public. You’ll agitate other couples around you that don’t possess this quality and may even make them jealous. Even familiar couples will talk about your closeness, which should make you feel even better about your own relationship.
– Don’t brag. Don’t brag about your mate’s romantic capabilities to others. Anyone watching will be able to sit back, observe and come to their own happy conclusions. Additionally, if you’re following these tips, no convincing will be required, as they will be able to see your happiness.
– A warm greeting. At the end of a long day or the beginning of a new day, greet each other warmly, with a nice smile, a happy hello and a tight hug. This also stands true when you are meeting your mate at a family dinner, holiday party or even at the movie theater. Everyone around you will hate you for being so happy and loving.
– Don’t bash your mate. Happy couples never speak negatively about each other. They communicate and are always loving. So, don’t feel the need to share your dirty laundry and complaints to your unhappy friends. Again, misery loves company.
– Never argue in public. Even though he was supposed to pay the bill and you ended up having to pay it or she didn’t pick up your dry cleaning like she said she would, never argue in public. And, please don’t allow miserable friends or even couples to instigate — as we all know, misery loves company and they will try to do anything to upset a happy couple. Don’t fall for it. Talk out the situation when the two of you are alone and then have awesome sex.
– Have great sex. You won’t have to say a thing. The big smile and the glow on your face will say more than a mouthful and everyone will be able to tell. You will definitely be envied by those lacking — in that area.
Remember, if you practice these seven tips, you are sure to have a happy, long-lasting, respectful, romance-filled relationship for many years to come. You will probably have other couples asking you for your secrets. So, be ready!
–myra c. harris is the author of How to Get a Man: From the Kitchen, to the Bedroom, to the Ring, which can be purchased at www.letaypublishing.com.
